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Everyone tries to comfort me by saying you are in a better place, you are in heaven, you are happier there. Then they list off the other people I have lost throughout my life and say you’re together now, you’re laughing together, you’re dancing together. They claim that should bring me peace, that should help me accept what has happened, that should make me happy.
It doesn’t work.
I am not comforted by the idea of you looking down at me, because I would...