Me, my husband, and our boyfriend
Recently, while I was at lunch with a friend, she asked me about intimacy. She did it in such a way that it was clear she wasn't really asking me, she was telling me what she thought about intimacy. More specifically, what she thought about the intimacy involved in my relationship with my husband Alex and our boyfriend Jon.
"I just don't understand," she said, picking at her salad as if meaning might be buried under her kale. "If you give 40...