Genes aren’t destiny, and other things I’ve learned from being adopted

"You're adopted?"

That's inevitably how people respond to me when the word comes up in conversation. I can almost hear the italics around it: "You're adopted?" I know there are dozens of questions lurking beneath the word, if only I'll talk about them.

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